Shame to Connection for Women
A 12-Week Psychoeducational Shame Resilience Curriculum
Betrayal trauma doesn’t just break trust; it quietly rewrites the way a woman sees herself.
For many betrayed partners, shame doesn’t come from what they did… it comes from what was done to them. Questions like:
- How did I not know?
- Why didn’t I see the signs?
- What does this say about me?
- Am I weak for staying? Am I failing for leaving?
And yet, shame for betrayed women is rarely named, let alone tended to. Shame to Connection for Women is a guided 12-week program created specifically for women who have experienced betrayal and want to move out of self-blame, isolation, and confusion, and back into clarity, self-trust, and connection.
This program is for you if:
- You were betrayed by a partner and now question your judgment, worth, or intuition
- You feel embarrassed, stuck, or silenced about your story
- You carry shame for staying, leaving, or still being unsure
- You feel disconnected from yourself, your body, or your voice
- You want to heal without minimizing what happened or blaming yourself
This is not about fixing your relationship.
This is about repairing your relationship with yourself.
Understanding Shame After Betrayal
When betrayal occurs, many women internalize the trauma. Instead of placing responsibility where it belongs, shame quietly shifts inward:
- I should have known.
- I should have been enough.
- Something must be wrong with me.
This form of shame often shows up as:
- Hypervigilance or self-doubt
- Difficulty trusting yourself or others
- Emotional numbness or overwhelm
- Fear of being seen, judged, or “too much”
Left unaddressed, shame keeps you stuck, disconnected from your intuition, your boundaries, and your sense of self. Healing happens when shame is met with safety, compassion, and connection.
What You’ll Learn & Experience
Throughout this program, you will:
- Learn how betrayal trauma impacts identity and self-perception
- Understand the difference between guilt, grief, and shame
- Gently uncover the hidden narratives fueling self-blame
- Develop tools for self-compassion and nervous system regulation
- Practice reconnecting with your intuition, needs, and voice
- Explore what healthy boundaries and self-trust look like for you
This work is about integrating your story without shame.
Ready to Learn More?
All you need is a safe place to begin. This is your safe place.

12 Week Group Coaching Program – $1495
Join a supportive group setting designed for betrayed partners. In addition to self-paced modules, you’ll engage in 12 live coaching sessions facilitated by Betrayal Trauma Coach Jessie Craft, where you’ll connect with others on a similar journey of healing and growth. Access a dedicated group chat to share experiences, insights, and build community, along with ongoing support from your coach between sessions to deepen your understanding of the course material.
Next Cohort: Sundays, April 26 – July 26, 2026 (9:00-10:30am pst)
*No call May 10, 2026 & June 21, 2026*