Helping Couples Heal
A Relationally Focused Couples Recovery Model
The HCH model uses a multidimensional approach incorporating a neurobiological, experiential, systems, and attachment-informed approach to healing relationships after betrayal. We believe couples can heal, thrive, and ultimately create an even deeper connection with proper education, guidance, and support.
Shattering the Stigma: Providing Hope for Men Impacted by Betrayal Trauma
Powered by RedCircle In the face of betrayal, healing may seem like an impossible task for male partners. Male betrayed partners are often overlooked in the treatment of betrayal trauma. In this episode, Marnie and Duane address the challenges that male betrayed...
Welcome!
If you have been betrayed in your relationship, it’s understandable if you feel like all hope is lost. Once trust is broken, many people think the easiest solution is to give up. But in doing so, you could be robbing yourself of true joy and happiness. Here at Helping Couples Heal, we are dedicated to assisting you in working past the betrayal and doubt while rebuilding trust and intimacy.
Betrayal wears many masks and isn’t solely defined as infidelity.
Whether your trust has been broken by lies, pornography, abuse, manipulation, or other unfaithful actions, we give you the tools needed to overcome life’s challenges. Not only can you gain new understanding and insight into your partner’s needs, but you will discover how your relationship can thrive unlike never before.
Featured Podcast
Shattering the Stigma: Providing Hope for Men Impacted by Betrayal Trauma
Powered by RedCircle In the face of betrayal, healing may seem like an impossible task for male partners. Male betrayed partners are often overlooked in the treatment...
Embracing a Restorative Justice Model After Betrayal
In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, hosts Marnie Breecker and Duane Osterlind emphasize the importance of adopting a restorative justice model when...
In Each Other’s Care With Stan Tatkin
In this episode, Marnie and Duane welcome Stan Tatkin back to the Helping Couples Heal podcast to continue their discussion about healing relationships after betrayal...
The Power of Personal Advocacy and Collaboration in Betrayal Trauma Treatment
In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk about being responsible for your healing and what that means. While building a treatment team...
A Call To Men with Ted Bunch
In this episode of The Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk to Ted Bunch, author, educator, activist, lecturer, and Chief Development Officer at A Call...
Ambiguous Grief with Stephanie Sarazin
In this episode of the Helping Couple Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk with author Stephanie Sarazin about her book "Soulbroken: A Guidebook For Your Journey Through...
Our Mission
Our mission is to Help Couples Heal by creating honest, intimate, connected, and joyful relationships. What sets us apart is our unique focus on creating, maintaining, and nurturing a community just for couples.
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Our Featured Group
“Women who Betrayed” Coaching Group
After sexual betrayal, it can be difficult to rebuild trust and restore intimacy in a relationship. If you have done the betrayal, it can, at times, feel hopeless. As a woman, it’s even harder as there are societal constructs and perceptions that make the journey for relational recovery so much more challenging. If you have betrayed your partner and want to heal the relationship and feel stuck, this group is for you.
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