Helping Couples Heal
A Relationally Focused Couples Recovery Model
The HCH model uses a multidimensional approach incorporating a neurobiological, experiential, systems, and attachment-informed approach to healing relationships after betrayal. We believe couples can heal, thrive, and ultimately create an even deeper connection with proper education, guidance, and support.
You Can’t Think Your Way Out of Trauma
In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk with Gemini Adams, Trauma Recovery Specialist, Educator, Author, and HCH Coach, about the importance of including somatic practices in the treatment of Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder...
Welcome!
If you have been betrayed in your relationship, it’s understandable if you feel like all hope is lost. Once trust is broken, many people think the easiest solution is to give up. But in doing so, you could be robbing yourself of true joy and happiness. Here at Helping Couples Heal, we are dedicated to assisting you in working past the betrayal and doubt while rebuilding trust and intimacy.
Betrayal wears many masks and isn’t solely defined as infidelity.
Whether your trust has been broken by lies, pornography, abuse, manipulation, or other unfaithful actions, we give you the tools needed to overcome life’s challenges. Not only can you gain new understanding and insight into your partner’s needs, but you will discover how your relationship can thrive unlike never before.
Featured Podcast
You Can’t Think Your Way Out of Trauma
In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk with Gemini Adams, Trauma Recovery Specialist, Educator, Author, and HCH Coach, about the...
Imago Dialogue/Safe Conversations with Harville & Helen – Part 2
In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane bring you part 2 of their conversation with Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt. Harville and...
Imago Dialogue/Safe Conversations with Harville & Helen – Part 1
In part one of this special episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk with relationship experts Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt about...
Living In Limbo
In this episode of Helping Couples Heal, Marnie and Duane answer a listener’s question about how to live in limbo, without safety, after choosing to stay in a relationship after betrayal.
Wholly Healthy Sex After Betrayal
In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane talk with Zoe Kors, certified Sexolgosit and HCH’s resident Sex and Intimacy Coach, about healthy sexuality and sexual integration in the context of healing from betrayal and relational trauma.
Betrayed Partner Trauma Responses
In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane discuss the biology of partner trauma responses through the lens of attachment theory and safety.
Our Mission
Our mission is to Help Couples Heal by creating honest, intimate, connected, and joyful relationships. What sets us apart is our unique focus on creating, maintaining, and nurturing a community just for couples.
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Men’s Coaching Groups
After sexual betrayal, it can be difficult to rebuild trust and restore intimacy in a relationship. If you have done the betrayal, it can, at times, feel hopeless. You can sometimes feel like maybe you can’t fix it, even if both of you desperately want it to work. If you have betrayed your partner and want to heal the relationship and feel stuck, this group is for you.