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95. The Ten Core Wounds of Betrayal

95. The Ten Core Wounds of Betrayal

by Chloe | Dec 10, 2025 | Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity, Relationship Recovery

When betrayal enters a relationship, it doesn’t just break trust – it fractures a person’s sense of self, safety, and connection. In this episode, we explore the ten core wounds that betrayed partners often experience, each one carrying its own story and its own...
94. Finding The Way Through with Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein

94. Finding The Way Through with Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein

by Chloe | Nov 6, 2025 | Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity

In this episode, Marnie sits down with two of her colleagues from Northern California, Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein, to talk about Finding The Way Through, their new workbook designed to integrate sobriety, recovery, and betrayed partner sensitivity into the healing...
93. Unscripted Truths: A Candid Conversation with Dr. Omar Minwalla

93. Unscripted Truths: A Candid Conversation with Dr. Omar Minwalla

by Chloe | Oct 20, 2025 | Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity

In what was originally intended to be a structured discussion on “The Ten Steps to Constructing the Secret Sexual Basement,” this episode took an unexpected and deeply personal turn. Instead, I’m joined by Dr. Omar Minwalla for a raw, unfiltered conversation that...
92. Honoring Your Grief Without Letting It Define You

92. Honoring Your Grief Without Letting It Define You

by Chloe | Oct 6, 2025 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Relationship Recovery

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie explores the delicate balance of grief and hope in couples working to heal after betrayal. She shares why grief must be honored — not rushed, bypassed, or minimized — and how acknowledging the depth of loss...
90. From Regression to Repair: Continuing the Conversation with Jon Lee

90. From Regression to Repair: Continuing the Conversation with Jon Lee

by Chloe | Aug 26, 2025 | Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Partner Trauma, Relationship Recovery

In this follow-up conversation with therapist and author Jon Lee, we continue our deep dive into emotional regression and its profound impact on couples recovering from betrayal. Building on the foundation we laid in Part 1, Jon and I explore how regression shows up...
88. Sober Doesn’t Mean Safe

88. Sober Doesn’t Mean Safe

by Chloe | Jul 3, 2025 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Relationship Recovery

In this episode, Marnie unpacks a critical truth in the betrayal recovery process: sexual sobriety is not the same as relational healing. In other words, just because the acting out has stopped doesn’t mean the relationship is safe or healing. In fact, ongoing...
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Coming in January: The Shame Summit with Marnie & Jake

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