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Time and Expectations

Time and Expectations

by Duane Osterlind | May 18, 2022 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Relationship Recovery

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane discuss the importance of managing expectations around the time it takes to heal relationships after the discovery of betrayal. Powered by RedCircle Helping Couples Heal – Expectations and...
Shame

Shame

by Duane Osterlind | Apr 26, 2022 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane discuss the topic of shame, the greatest obstacle/barrier to healing relationships after betrayal. It is crucial that a betraying partner be accountable for their betrayal; shame doesn’t accomplish...
Betrayed By Porn

Betrayed By Porn

by Duane Osterlind | Mar 2, 2022 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction

In this episode, Marnie and Duane discuss the topic of pornography, specifically in the context of betrayal. This episode isn’t a moral debate about pornography. Instead, it is a candid discussion about the traumatic impact of discovering a secret sexual life on...
The Complexity of Trust

The Complexity of Trust

by Duane Osterlind | Feb 14, 2022 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Relationship Recovery, Sex Addiction

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Duane and Marnie discuss how the compartmentalization of trust can hinder relational healing and further traumatize a betrayed partner. While many betrayers are able to understand why their partner can no longer...
Therapeutic Separation

Therapeutic Separation

by Duane Osterlind | Dec 14, 2021 | Betrayal Trauma, Partner Trauma, Relationship Recovery, Sex Addiction

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane address therapeutic separation in the context of betrayal and relational trauma, a topic often talked about but not often understood. They discuss everything from what it is and what it is not to...
Feeling Stuck

Feeling Stuck

by Duane Osterlind | Nov 9, 2021 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Sex Addiction

A note to our listeners: We want you to know how sorry we are that it’s been so long since we released a podcast episode. Please know that you’ve been on our minds and in our hearts; it’s just been a particularly crazy busy time for us and...
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Testimonials

1st

I've been listening to this podcast for over a year now and I simply cannot say enough about the amount of knowledge I've gained from each and every episode! I hope that these two brilliant therapists keep picking the brains of the most recent researchers so that listeners across the world can benefit from the healing information out there.

2nd

I want to just say that your podcast could possibly be what saves my marriage. It's definitely launched the right attitude in me for reconciliation.

3rd

I can't tell you how life-changing and eye-opening this podcast has been for me and my partner! Marnie and Duane, you are incredible therapists and I'm so glad I found you! I want to help spread your teachings as far and wide as possible. Everybody needs to listen to this podcast!

4th

I've been binge listening since finding this podcast. So much good and helpful information. I wish these people had been my therapists since the beginning. I must now grieve decades of unhelpful therapy. Thank you for making this podcast!

5th

I feel more validated and seen than I have for years. This is life-saving and life-changing. Thank you for putting a name and words into my life experience. Alas, help is available.

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