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Betrayed Partner Trauma Responses

Betrayed Partner Trauma Responses

by Duane Osterlind | Sep 9, 2022 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Healthy Sexuality, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Porn Addiction, Relationship Recovery, Sex Addiction, Sexual Health

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane discuss the biology of partner trauma responses through the lens of attachment theory and safety. Conceptualizing partner trauma from this lens allows those who have betrayed to learn the necessary...
Community

Community

by Duane Osterlind | Aug 5, 2022 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Healthy Sexuality, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Porn Addiction, Relationship Recovery, Sex Addiction, Sexual Health

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal Podcast, Marnie and Duane talk with a couple about how the HCH couples community has profoundly changed and transformed their relationship. As Corrie and Pat reflect on their experience, Marnie and Duane discuss the...
Life After Recovery

Life After Recovery

by Duane Osterlind | Jul 6, 2022 | Featured, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Porn Addiction, Relationship Recovery, Sex Addiction, Sexual Health

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Duane and Marnie answer a listener’s question about what to expect further along the recovery road for a couple recovering from betrayal trauma. What does moving forward look like after early tasks such as...
Shame

Shame

by Duane Osterlind | Apr 26, 2022 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Featured, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Duane discuss the topic of shame, the greatest obstacle/barrier to healing relationships after betrayal. It is crucial that a betraying partner be accountable for their betrayal; shame doesn’t accomplish...
Betrayed By Porn

Betrayed By Porn

by Duane Osterlind | Mar 2, 2022 | Addiction Recovery, Betrayal Trauma, Infidelity, Partner Trauma, Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction

In this episode, Marnie and Duane discuss the topic of pornography, specifically in the context of betrayal. This episode isn’t a moral debate about pornography. Instead, it is a candid discussion about the traumatic impact of discovering a secret sexual life on...

Testimonials

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I've been listening to this podcast for over a year now and I simply cannot say enough about the amount of knowledge I've gained from each and every episode! I hope that these two brilliant therapists keep picking the brains of the most recent researchers so that listeners across the world can benefit from the healing information out there.

2nd

I want to just say that your podcast could possibly be what saves my marriage. It's definitely launched the right attitude in me for reconciliation.

3rd

I can't tell you how life-changing and eye-opening this podcast has been for me and my partner! Marnie and Duane, you are incredible therapists and I'm so glad I found you! I want to help spread your teachings as far and wide as possible. Everybody needs to listen to this podcast!

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5th

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