HELPING COUPLES HEAL
Relationally Focused Couples Recovery
COACHING
We believe couples can heal, thrive, and ultimately create an even deeper connection with proper education, guidance, and support.
Join Our Empowered On Land Retreat
April 8–11, 2026 | Montauk Yacht Club, Montauk, New York
Empowered On Land is set in the calm, coastal environment of Montauk. This retreat offers space away from daily demands to slow down, reconnect with yourself, and be in community with women who understand the complexities of betrayal trauma. Through guided group sessions, shared experiences, and intentional time for reflection, you will be supported in grounding your healing and strengthening your sense of self.
Healing doesn’t happen in isolation. Empowered On Land offers the opportunity to heal alongside others, in a setting designed to support both nervous system regulation and meaningful connection.
JOIN THE HEALING ROOM
A Private Membership Community for Healing After Betrayal – Just $39/month
THE SHAME SUMMIT WITH MARNIE & JAKE
We’re excited to share that Marnie and Jake Porter are partnering on a powerful new offering: The Shame Summit, happening January 9–16.
Welcome!
If you have been betrayed in your relationship, it’s understandable if you feel like all hope is lost. Once trust is broken, many people think the easiest solution is to give up. But in doing so, you could be robbing yourself of true joy and happiness. Here at Helping Couples Heal, we are dedicated to assisting you in working past the betrayal and doubt while rebuilding trust and intimacy.
Betrayal wears many masks and isn’t solely defined as infidelity.
Whether your trust has been broken by lies, pornography, abuse, manipulation, or other unfaithful actions, we give you the tools needed to overcome life’s challenges. Not only can you gain new understanding and insight into your partner’s needs, but you will discover how your relationship can thrive unlike never before.
Featured Podcast
96. Beyond Words: How Friends and Family Can Truly Support Betrayed Partners
In this deeply moving episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie is joined by four courageous women (Sabra, Ally, Liz, and Rachel) who vulnerably share their...
95. The Ten Core Wounds of Betrayal
When betrayal enters a relationship, it doesn’t just break trust - it fractures a person’s sense of self, safety, and connection. In this episode, we explore the ten...
94. Finding The Way Through with Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein
In this episode, Marnie sits down with two of her colleagues from Northern California, Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein, to talk about Finding The Way Through, their new...
93. Unscripted Truths: A Candid Conversation with Dr. Omar Minwalla
In what was originally intended to be a structured discussion on “The Ten Steps to Constructing the Secret Sexual Basement,” this episode took an unexpected and deeply...
92. Honoring Your Grief Without Letting It Define You
In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie explores the delicate balance of grief and hope in couples working to heal after betrayal. She shares why...
91. Still Becoming: Chandler Rogers on Recovery, Marriage, and Growth (Part 2)
In this continuation of our conversation with Chandler Rogers, we dive deeper into his journey of recovery from pornography addiction and the ongoing challenges of...
Our Mission
Our mission is to Help Couples Heal by creating honest, intimate, connected, and joyful relationships. What sets us apart is our unique focus on creating, maintaining, and nurturing a community just for couples.
Our Featured Course
Our Featured Group
Betrayed Partner’s Coaching Group
If you have lost hope around healing your relationship due to your partner’s infidelity, relational or betrayal trauma, you have come to the right place. After a betrayal and discovery, everything can seem confusing and uncertain.
HCH offers a weekly group for individuals to focus on growth, strength, and relational recovery. We are here to help you heal from the impact of betrayal trauma on your relationship.
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Remember, you don’t have to do this alone! When you join our email list, we will alert you when a new HCH episode is released and give you the links to any downloads. Also, we will provide you with updates about upcoming workshops, online webinars, and any other relevant information.





